First Look? A Modern Take on a Classic Wedding Tradition
First Look? A Modern Take on a Classic Wedding Tradition
For decades—centuries, even—the first time a couple laid eyes on each other on their wedding day was that iconic aisle moment. The music swells, the guests stand, and the anticipation builds as one partner finally turns to see the love of their life walking toward them. It’s a classic, emotional, and downright magical moment.
But as weddings have evolved, so have traditions. Enter: the First Look. A private, pre-ceremony reveal where the couple sees each other for the first time without 150+ pairs of eyes watching. It’s an intimate alternative that’s gained popularity in recent years.
So, which one is right for you? Let’s break it down.
Aisle Reveal: The Classic First Look
This is the timeless choice—the moment so many have dreamed of. If the idea of locking eyes for the first time as you walk toward forever gives you butterflies, you’re not alone!
Pros of a Traditional Aisle Reveal:
Built-in Drama & Emotion – There’s nothing quite like that moment of anticipation before you step onto the aisle. And the reactions? Second to none!.
Stunning, Candid Photos – Your photographer will be ready to capture every tear, every smile, and every heart-melting expression.
Feels Like a True Ceremony Moment – Keeping with tradition can make the ceremony feel even more special and sacred.
More Time for Getting Ready – Without a First Look, you can spend the whole morning apart, soaking in the excitement with your wedding party.
Things to Consider:
You’ll have to get all your photos done post-ceremony, which means cocktail hour might be dedicated to portraits instead of mingling.
If nerves tend to get the best of you, waiting until the ceremony for that first look might feel overwhelming.
First Look: A Modern Take on Tradition
A First Look happens before the ceremony, just the two of you (photographer in the background capturing every second). It’s an intentional, quiet moment to soak it all in—without the pressure of peering eyes.
Pros of a First Look:
More Time for Photos – Seeing each other earlier means you can take portraits before the ceremony, freeing up time to actually enjoy cocktail hour.
A Private & Playful Photo Op – A First Look isn’t just a quiet moment together—it’s a chance to capture intimate, just-the-two-of-you photos away from the prying eyes of family and friends. Without an audience, you can relax, be yourselves, and maybe even get a little risqué if that’s your style.
Calms the Wedding Day Nerves – Weddings are emotional! Sharing this moment beforehand can help ease any jitters and let you breathe before walking down the aisle.
More Daylight for Outdoor Photos – If you’re having an evening ceremony, a First Look ensures you get those dreamy golden-hour shots before the sun sets.
Things to Consider:
If you love the tradition of the aisle reveal, a First Look might take away from that OMG moment.
You’ll need to get ready earlier in the day to fit everything in.
If you’re a sucker for suspense, waiting for the ceremony might be more exciting!
So, What’s the Verdict?
There’s no wrong choice here—just the one that feels most like you. If you love a classic, dramatic reveal with all eyes on you, keep it traditional. Want a quiet, personal moment together before the ceremony, a First Look might be perfect.
Either way, that first look—whether at the altar or in a private moment—will be unforgettable.
From the desk of Megan Craig, Strathmere Wedding and Sales Manager
